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MELTDOWNS! (part 2): “The Iceberg Effect” . . .
A good friend of mine was a former headmaster at an exclusive private middle school in the Atlanta area. One day he had to suspend a...

Dr. Mark Andrews
Apr 7, 20213 min read


MELTDOWNS! . . . and how to deal with them . . .
Almost every parent has faced dealing with their child’s temper meltdowns. Whether it’s the “terrible twos” or the “terrible...

Dr. Mark Andrews
Apr 1, 20212 min read


For those considering Intercountry Adoption (part 4—Conclusion) . . .
As I mentioned previously, the number of children adopted into the U.S. has gradually decreased over the past 15-20 years (largely due to...

Dr. Mark Andrews
Mar 21, 20213 min read


Intercountry Adoption: The Adoptees Speak . . .
In my last post I shared that intercountry adoption can be a wonderful way for a couple or individual to build a family, as well as...

Dr. Mark Andrews
Mar 17, 20212 min read


EYES WIDE OPEN . . . For those considering intercountry adoption (part 2) . . .
Intercountry adoption can be a wonderful way of building a family, as well as giving a vulnerable child a safe and loving family to grow...

Dr. Mark Andrews
Mar 8, 20213 min read


Are You Considering Intercountry Adoption? (Part 1) . . .
by Dr. Mark Andrews www.adoptivefamilyresources.org As an intercountry adoptive parent for the past 27 years, my two children (who were...

Dr. Mark Andrews
Feb 24, 20212 min read


Self-Care—A Priority for Adoptive and Foster Parents . . .
Self-care is a must for adoptive and foster dads and moms. Granted, this is sometimes easier said than done. However, it must be a...

Dr. Mark Andrews
Feb 15, 20212 min read


The uniqueness of adoptee loss (part 3: Conclusion) . . .
I once worked with a young man, age 18 (I’ll call him Caleb) in a long-term residential program for older adolescents. He told me that by...

Dr. Mark Andrews
Feb 8, 20213 min read


The uniqueness of adoptee loss (part 2) . . .
The uniqueness of adoptee loss (part 2) . . . In light of their being relinquished in the past, adoptees experience grief in different...

Dr. Mark Andrews
Jan 29, 20212 min read


The uniqueness of adoptee loss (part 1) . . .
Many years ago, author and adoptive parent Deborah Silverstein wrote that, in the world of adoption, “Loss is the hub of the...

Dr. Mark Andrews
Jan 27, 20212 min read


Adopting an Older Child: The Joys and the Challenges (part 4- conclusion) . . .
Physical scars . . . we all have them, don’t we? I have two. One is on my right shin area from when I once drove in a demolition derby...

Dr. Mark Andrews
Jan 17, 20212 min read


Adopting an Older Child: The Joys and the Challenges (part 4- conclusion) . . .
Physical scars . . . we all have them, don’t we? I have two. One is on my right shin area from when I once drove in a demolition derby...

Dr. Mark Andrews
Jan 12, 20212 min read


Preparing for the holidays (part 2): Sensory Overload
I remember many years ago when we took our newly-adopted seven-year-old son to the beach for the first time. He had never seen the ocean...

Dr. Mark Andrews
Dec 23, 20202 min read


Preparing for the holidays . . .
For most children, the Christmas holidays are an exciting time. Those of you who are veteran adoptive or foster parents know this may not...

Dr. Mark Andrews
Dec 18, 20202 min read


Adopting an Older Child: The Joys and the Challenges (part 3) . . .
A couple of years ago I was interacting with a young man who had been adopted at age ten. I asked him what were some of his biggest life...

Dr. Mark Andrews
Dec 6, 20202 min read


Adopting an Older Child: The Joys and the Challenges (part 2) . . .
With international adoption steadily decreasing over the past decade, more and more couples and individuals in the U.S. are choosing to...

Dr. Mark Andrews
Nov 23, 20202 min read


Adopting an Older Child: The Joys and the Challenges (part 1) . . .
In recent years, older child adoption--which typically means adopting a child three years of age and older—has become more popular and...

Dr. Mark Andrews
Nov 15, 20202 min read


From time to time I like to recommend helpful resources to those of you readers of my posts.
There are a ton of reading resources out there for adoptive parents. Below I’ve listed several of what I think are among the best. We...

Dr. Mark Andrews
Nov 6, 20202 min read


Wisdom from Intercountry Adoptive Parents: “Learning from Trial and Error” part 2 (conclusion) . .
I shared in my previous post that all of us parents have learned from trial and error in our parenting approaches. This is especially...

Dr. Mark Andrews
Oct 28, 20202 min read


Wisdom from Intercountry Adoptive Parents: “Learning from Trial and Error” part 1 . . .
Although my wife and I did a lot of homework in preparation for the adoption of our two children form India, we also learned a lot from...

Dr. Mark Andrews
Oct 11, 20202 min read
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